Channelize please.....

Anger. Lots of it. Let's channelise it right. I would urge each man (and women too) to resolve the following........

We will NOT differentiate between pink and blue, between cars and dolls the moment a child opens its eyes to this world.

We will NOT allow for women to be objectified.

We will teach our immediate society to respect people for persons that they are and not because of their gender.

We will NOT let eve teasing in public pass our notice. Come on guys, use your head, the actual one....you have that too you know.

Who are these men anyway?

Of course punishment is a must. They must be taught a lesson.

But what if these rapists were a politician's sons? Would those in power have still maintained that severest of punishment will be awarded?

What if the rapists were family, which indeed is very common in our society. Would then the cry for justice have even escaped from the four walls of the victim's house?

There is an uproar that the victim could have been anyone, you, me. I would like to remind us all that the rapists also could have been anyone from amongst us. It's not some special breed of men but men from amongst all of us.

Punishment is a must but at the same time, a change in mind set, a change in how men treat women, in how society views women is needed urgently. It's not going to happen over night but it needs to start sometime. Now is a good time.

Why are we shocked really?

Why are we 'shocked' that Nirbhaya is no more? She died a long time back. She died at the hands of those 6 bas*****. She died again when insensitive idiots made statements like 'women invite rape' or 'she should not have resisted rape'. She died when our politicians used this opportunity yet again to gain political mileage. She died when rape reports kept flooding in even as she was in the hospital and the protests were on. Medically too, all that was left of her was her body with no intestines and failed organs.

Really what are we shocked about?

What we should be worried about is that time and again, we wait to incidents to happen to awaken our apparent conscience. 26/11, Jessica Lal, Nirbhaya now......and yet from tomorrow, the eve teasers will be back on the streets. The Khaps will continue to reign in their miserable power. The rapists will continue seeking their next target. Women will continue wearing burkas, in real and in symbolism too. Some women will continue to remain women's worst enemies. Personally, I don't only blame the government.

I don't only blame the police. I blame all of us. Each time there has been an eve teasing incident, why do the passers by not step up then and there? Why do I have to hang my head in shame as if somehow I am the one who has shamed society and not the other way around? Why do I have to face the momentary stigma because I was wronged? Why dont all those hundreds of people around me join hands to tell off the eve teasers so that the next time, the wrong doers are first scared of society and then the police?

So really, why are "we" shocked? Why are we not shocked when society calls women the weaker sex, even the fairer sex - the mere comparison makes one lesser than the other.

 I don't know about you, but I will try to act brave in my everyday life, not just towards myself but every injustice that I encounter. I will encourage my brother, my friends to do the same. In the hope that it's not another gruesome incident that I wil have to wait for to ignite my fighter-spirit, to make me realise that any change can not wait for political reforms or for police to be present at every nook and corner that I visit. Change will happen when we decide for it to happen.

Crimes will not stop because of FEAR of later possible punishment. No. Crimes will be curbed when people are made to understand the heinous-ness of wrong acts, when they are educated about everybody's equal right to live, when LIVE AND LET LIVE drives our society and not the greed for power.

Is Aarakshan possible in Corruption?

Education is the best business today - dialogue from Aarakshan.
Corruption is the best practice - mentality of most humans

I just watched Aarakshan. Its a movie about how corruption has seeped into something as noble as education as well. Future of Young India is decided by those who have money and those who would go to any lengths to make money. The movie had all the regular subjects that would complete a typical Prakash Jha syllabus. But the after taste of this movie, as is with most such kind of movies, felt a bit unreal, stretched beyond the realms of practicality.

For example, one man standing against the entire system comprised of education big-wigs, politicians, police and running a parallel education system in a satyagraha kind of way would seem rather impractical and far removed from reality.

Immediately after watching the movie, my mom told me of an incident that has left me sad, angry and yet again, cynical. When in Chennai, she used to teach at one of the most prestigious schools of the city. The school had an impeccable reputation and prided itself for being a non-biased school. Only the really good students got in and all of them passed out as even better students. No donation, no reservation, no reference was known to work at school.

Today mom told me a story of how the answer sheet of an influential man's son was changed during board exams!!!!!! Apparently when the answer sheet was collected and taken to the staff room, all teachers were asked to leave. The student was called in, his paper removed from the bunch and he was made to correct/ fill in all the answers that he had written wrongly or left incomplete. And we are talking here of 12th standard Board Exams!!!!!!! He was the son of a movie star! How does he even care about marks? Its not clear whether this was done under pressure from the father or by the school to protect its own reputation of being the number 1 with no failures ever.

Either way, I am disgusted. My mom quit the school soon after but that is all she could do. She is a common (wo)man. She didn't know any better. She was no Big B who challenged the whole system and got the entire city together to stand united for a tangible common cause.

She also told me of the time when she heard of the principle taking bribe from a student, of him having his son being taught by my mom and thus telling my mom to make exceptions with his son. And the same principle orating profuse speeches during the assembly, coaxing young students to always chose the right path, by being the mentor to young impressionable minds! Such double standards!

Today the nation is a-buzz with chants of Anna Hazare. The timing of me watching the movie was bang on. As I sat in the theater watching the movie unfold and thinking to myself, "Oh its just a movie and no common man can give in to the political pressure, blackmail and avoid the dirt of corruption", I was immediately reminded that right now, at this very moment, one man in India has done exactly this. Anna Hazare has done what most movies have shown year after year, the rise of a common man against the powerful, dirty, loathing political system.

You know how thoughts are - contradicting, conflicting all the time. I have not been a supporter of the Anna Movement that India witnessed in the last few days. I don't mean I have been against the man himself, on the contrary, I applaud the spirit of the man for having brought the whole country together the way he did. No news of violence anywhere, people fasting in support, people taking to the streets day after day, it was all really really fantastic. My grouse has been with the unprecedented support and hype that the movement got. Like my friend Arundhati Ghosh mentioned in her article, my grouse has been against the externalization of corruption. And it remains thus.

The whole country is joyous with what is being called the Anna-pendence Day. People are on the roads celebrating today like its a festival. They say Indian has won today.

I wish I could be a part of this celebration too. I wish I could feel the way the whole country is feeling today. But I don't.

My mother supports Anna Hazare. With a hope that tomorrow will come a day when she and many like her will be able to openly oppose corruption. After days of speculation I have understood that the masses are supporting the cause because they think that with the Lokpal Bill, corruption will find a punishment center, a court where justice will be granted.

But who will justice be granted to against whom? The school principle who accepted bribes for personal gain or the teachers who were forced to change the answer sheet of a film star's son? Will justice be done for people who pay bribes for convenience or will justice be done to those who are forced to pay bribes because there is no other option?

Corruption seems to have touched everyone of us, in some way of the other. There are times when we have been a part of it and then there are times when we have been spectators to it. And today is a time when we are protesters against it. But the actual revolution will happen when we decide to change our own ways so that we, in no way, allow ourselves to be perpetrators of it.

Ann-a-other day has gone by, but Picture abhi baaki hai!

So - I haven't been watching TV over the last few days. There is no reason to watch TV anyway. Nothing new seems to be happening. Except for Anna completed one more day of fasting. Team Anna in a deadlock with the Government. Anna Hazare is the 2nd Gandhi. His health is ok. And so on and so forth.

I haven't attempted reading news papers either. Whats the point. XYZ people formed human chains. ABC are fasting along with Anna. Lakhs of people hit the streets to be a part of this new revolution. Young and old join hands in unity to create history.

So in a nut shell, Anna is the 2nd Gandhi and the entire country is supporting him in order to feel like they are a part of something larger than life. So what really is going on in India? A patriotic Bollywood movie with all its masala. And to spice up the masala, throw in a Baba Ramdev as well - its almost a complete entertainer. And maybe that is what it is after all.

All of India's middle class is apparently out on streets in support of Anna Hazare. And I really commend the man for being able to garner the support that he has. I really salute the man for having been able to stir an otherwise indifferent lazy nation. But it also gives me cause for concern. The middle class that is supporting him, is it really "supporting" him or is this just another vent for their frustration that they face in their daily lives? Like in the movie 'A Wednesday', the frustrated common man had taken to an extreme step to vent his frustration, isn't this looking like a similar movie, albeit a non violent one?

Is the Indian Middle Class today willing to eradicate corruption from the root level? Sure we would all be happier if we did not have to bribe the useless babus, cops etc etc. But do we wonder why they have gotten used to taking bribes in the first place? What is corruption and to what level is it prevalent, have we stopped to wonder?

Incident: A friend of mine has his BBM updates around Anna. "I support Anna Hazare". "I too want a corruption free India". "Anna Hazare, we are with you". The other day he and I were going to somewhere and he wanted to enter the club from the back gate. We pointed out that its not allowed. His response "Arrey I'll just give the guard 50 bucks and he will let us enter"!!!!! Now this is a good friend of mine so I am not passing any judgement but all Im saying is that there really seems to be no merit to this 'andolan'. The common man supporting this cause does NOT understand the damn cause. On argument with my friend he said, "chota mota corruption chalta hai. We need to fight it at the top level'. I am sorry but I don't get it. If we are corrupt at our level, woh chalta hai?

And in his words was possibly the voice of all those lakhs of people who are out on the streets supporting Anna Hazare. I get a feeling, we all want a clean system without wanting to change our own ways. Thats chicken and egg situation, is it not?

Another friend argued with me, "The system needs to change if corruption needs to end". What system are be talking about? A system that is comprised of people. And as long as there are people in a position of power, there is bound to be "temptation" to give in to easier ways of life. So eradicating corruption is like saying we want to fight with one of the 7 sins that are intrinsic to human psyche. Who is to say that the committees that will be set up for the Lokpal Bill over years will not give in to this human psyche. It took a Spider Man to live his life based on "With great power comes great responsibility". In today's world, "with great power comes great opportunity to misuse it", isn't it?

People say that for the time being, a shake up was required to bring this rotting topic of corruption to focus. Great that it has been. What next? The Jan Lokpal Bill has many a loop holes and honestly, I am sick and tired of committees and panels and bills and more people being given power to govern me, administer me, watch me all the damn time. I do not choose to have more people in power and thus be given to the temptation.

Having said all of the above and not being a part of this mass-ive movement and almost being cynical to all of this (rare for me to not be moved by the goings on of my country), I must admit I am humbled by the man Anna Hazare. There must be something in him that wasn't there in Irom Sharmila that has managed to get him the mass support and not her. There must be something about this man that has attracted the common man and the non to common man (aka Rajnikanth, Lata Mangeshkar, Om Puri and the likes) to extend their support to him.

I wonder and then I wonder why my heart is not into this. I don't have answers, just speculations. Speculations that oscillate from wondering why a noble man would call himself 2nd Gandhi to why is Team Anna allowing the likes of Baba Ramdev to bask in the limelight, to wondering why the insistence to "pass" the bill as opposed to "lets talk about it" and to wondering whether this is blackmail or not. And as I wonder, I come across this (the link below).

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G4zRHEw21h8&feature=share

It could be a government conspiracy to malign this noble man or it could be the truth behind the scenes. I do not think the man's credibility ought to be doubted but at the same time, when its a movie, a Bollywood one at that, who is to say what is truth and what is far from truth?

Maybe he is real or maybe he is a damn good marketing campaign that has caught the fancy of the nation. Time will tell and we all will wait and watch.

Dear Anna Hazare ji - with respect Sir, can we have some respect for the Constitution and Democracy of India?

I am not sure I support Anna Hazare. I mean the cause is right. But the fight needs to be against the root-cause instead of making this an anti-govt drive. No doubt UPA is reacting stupidly but that's another story. As of now, the country doesn't need its youth in jails as much as it needs them in the parliament, in positions of change. Corruption is like cockroaches - spreads almost everywhere, all the time. India is not the only victim just like the current Govt is not the only perpetrator. With respect Mr. Anna Hazare, but right channelization of your movement will see better results. We have enough tamasha in our lives already for there to be more.



Our current government or political parties is not like the British ages ago that was "imposed" on us and hence there was a Quit India Movement against it. The current set of people have been elected by us. If we don't like them, lets start a movement to get better people on board. Lets start a movement to change the Constitution. But going against the current Constitution isn't being very responsible, is it now? We need to lead by example and if one wants to fight corruption, then one must start with being a law-abiding citizen. Why doesn't Anna form his own political party and show the nation that politics can exist without corruption? I am sure if Anna stands for elections today, he will win. Why doesn't he garner the courage to run the country? Its easy to run a protest - why doesn't he run a clean, non-corrupt government and show to everyone that Good can truly prevail. Running a country is no joke. Getting people to protest mind-less-ly unfortunately is easier, especially in our herd-mentality country.



What is the need for so much angst? What is the need to aggravate the people in power? Why cant the people of India be channelized in the right direction? I want to know how many people who have been a part of the demonstration yesterday will actually not bribe a cop if they get stopped for something. How many people in the so called "anti corruption drive" will not pay school donation and instead put their children in Kendriya Vidyalayas? How many people in support of Anna Hazare will vote the next time, stand for elections themselves, leave their cushy jobs and get into government services? How many people really understand this fight for corruption?



What is the whole country fighting for and fighting against? Really now people. If we want to stand united, aren't there other ways of doing so instead of trying so desperately to recreate and be a part of the Gandhian Movement?

Pull out those chaddis, its time.

Its time to bring the Pink Chaddis back.


In the recent past, the one movement that I have been proud of, the only movement that I really thought brought the thinking-feeling youth of the country together was the Pink Chaddi campaign against Mutalik. Remember that one? It was bloody effective. And engaging. And empowering. And let’s not forget, impactful as well. This was one movement that I thought followed the Gandhian principle, as preached by Munnabhai MBBS, quite effectively.


And it was probably because, as democratically as is possible, it was by the youth, for the youth of this country.


I find this word “youth” much abused in today’s context however. Much like the over-used ‘Mumbai spirit’. What does either of it really mean? Who does it really represent? Who actually benefits by all these so-called Youth-movements?
I am the youth of this country (well 30 is not too far from the youth mark), and ask me, how many of these so called youth-movements either matter to me or involve me or even make me want to stop to think about it.


A few months back, I got sucked into one of them. The Anna Hazare Anti Corruption Movement that media said had awakened the ‘youth’ of this country to start a revolution. A few months back I was at India Gate and Jantar Mantar, shouting slogans of “Anna tum sangharsh karo, hum tumhare saath hain”. My ass, hum tumhare saath hain! I did believe in the non-agenda man then, thinking it’s a relevant issue he has brought up to stimulate the masses and get them moving from a state of inertia to at least giving it a thought. It was noble in its nature as it was then, a strong knock on not just the government’s doors but on each of our conscience too. Of course I wanted to be a part of it for that and like me, many others too. Media lapped up the ‘revolution’ and aptly called it the awakening of the youth, thanks to the ageing Anna. Good job, clap clap.


Today it’s a stinking, rotting propaganda. I want to slap Baba Ramdev for having spoilt the momentum of what was supposed to be a non-personal-agenda driven movement. But let Baba be as he may be, I am really not even for our dear Anna Hazare’s stance anymore. What kind of messages is he sending out now? When did this become an anti government movement? Why has it become an anti government movement in the first place? Is the ruling government the only corrupt entity in this vast country? Will only maligning the government help this “noble” cause achieve its real goal? What is happening around us? I am flabbergasted.


Baba Ramdev says he will form a “sena” to fight corruption. Anna Hazare says he will continue “blackmailing” through fasting if need be. He has also said that Digvijay Singh should go to the mental hospital in Pune as that is where he belongs. Kapil Sibal is wondering how the Lokpal bill will help at all while Digvijay Singh claims to respect Anna Hazare but not the manner in which he is going about this movement.


What the hell! And then the media says, it’s a youth movement. Sure. Which of the above noble-doers is young, pray tell, or even cares about the young? Actually, which of the above care about anything at all? It’s all boiled down to, as always, a battle of egos, verbal wars, mud-slinging and news channel TRPs. Dear Gandhian Anna Hazare today spews venom as strongly as all other able politicians. Did Gandhiji mean this when he had initiated non-violent protests? Aren’t verbal attacks same as violence? Isn’t the outcome of both detrimental, negative and non-constructive to society at large?


It’s a pity, what India has been reduced to and even more a pity, how the “youth” is used as trump cards for anything and everything depending on people’s whims! I don’t support Anna Hazare anymore. I abhor Baba Ramdev. I detest everyone who is a part of this joke any further and I pity the youth, on whose expense this ‘tamasha’ is being pitched. I almost feel foolish for my post below – it holds no merit now.


As for us youth - I think it’s time for us to pull out our Pink chaddis now. Or maybe this time it should be yellow – yellow yellow for dirty fellow. Or red, for red red su-su on the bed. Or any other color – whatever suites our fancy or convenience. Whatever it takes to put an end to this nonsense now. Really, its time.